Am also struggling with the "eek no snapelike and imma" feeling! If you've got no one to stay around with on the Friday night, you can come down to Canterbury early and stay here if you wish. There would be an unruly toddler and a quickly disappearing husband, but these little problems occur in all the best places, I'm told. (Any of the people you're meeting fancy coming to deathday_party? :-/